Happiness Habits

 I've been reading psychology articles for a while, and happiness is one of the topics.

Here's a few quick things to consider if you feel like you could be a little happier.

1. Purpose - collaborative goal Vs competitive goal

2. Happiness Bias

3. Forgiveness

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